Category Archive: Service

Maybe You’re Too Selfish

This┬ámonth my wife and I will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary. In thinking through various events of the past 18 years, I’ve made an interesting discovery. Every single time that we’ve had conflict in our marriage, it was due to someone being selfish. And by someone, I mean me. I’m not going to say that …

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Out-Serve Your Wife

Pastor, craftsman, beekeeper, and all-around Renaissance man Tony McCollum once said that the goal of marriage is to out-serve your spouse. This statement radically changed how I thought about my marriage (so much so that I now see I’ve mentioned it┬ábefore). I’d always wanted my wife to be happy, and I assumed her happiness would …

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